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MAY: The Woman Who Married a Bear
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MAY: The Woman Who Married a Bear

On Interspecies Love and Natural Instincts

A coastal Pacific Northwest indigenous story, with abundant variations, this telling is ripe with forbidden love, eros, and tragedy. A woman and bear meet and mate, for the benefit of their people, but the benefit is not known until it is too late…

Da’axigaang (Charles Edenshaw, Haida, 1839-1920), Bear Mother carving

I’ve taken the liberty to scrounge together my favorite versions of this tale, wherein the Bear is benevolent, and the love between he and the human-woman is sincere. There are other versions that retain a fear of bears, making the husband out to be some sort of captor, as though he lured and trapped the woman into marriage, but I do not feel in my heart that it is so. Because there are enough stories like that. And this one is sadder, and simpler, for the truth it reveals: that as separate species, we are afraid to love each other…

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